One of the most popular shows on television for the last several years is "The Walking Dead." My son recently informed me that there is also a commentary show that follows it called "Talking Dead." The storyline, characters, and plots of the "The Walking Dead" have stolen away many hours of American lives. I actually shared at a summer camp recently how unhealthy it was for us to  spend hours watching shows that focused so much attention on death and gruesome images. Healthy spiritual minds are to focus on things that are lovely, pure, and things of good report (Philippians 4:4-8). If you spend hours consuming unhealthy television and Netflix shows, I urge you to fill your mind with better things.  But this is not the focus of my blog post today. Rather I want to share with you a spiritual calling that is perhaps the highest calling for all of us. It is the very opposite of what we may think when it comes to being fully devoted Christ followers.
 
The call of following Jesus means we are to consider Him our Lord and Savior. His desires and wishes are to become our desires and wishes. His plans are now our plans. In every sense the one who truly follows Christ becomes consumed with the things of Christ and dies to himself. 

Luke 9:23-27  — Then he said to them all: "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. 24 For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it. 25 What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit his very self? 26 If anyone is ashamed of me and my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of him when he comes in his glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels. 27 I tell you the truth, some who are standing here will not taste death before they see the kingdom of God." NIV

Jesus makes it clear that if we want to save our life we must sacrifice our life.  He tells his devoted disciples that they must deny themselves, die to themselves (take up the cross) and then they will be considered those who "follow” Him.  In every sense we are to be the dead who live for Him because He died for us.  
 
Now consider what those of us who are dead are to be doing. The big three items on our to-do list as Christ-followers are: 

1. Witness to others. Tell what Jesus has done for you.  The former blind man in John 9, the former immoral, racist Samaritan at the well in John 4, and the crazy former demoniac in Mark 5 all witness to others what Jesus did for them. Witnessing is easy for anyone. Tell what happened before you knew Jesus, how you met Him and how He impacted your life, and tell how things are different now that you follow Him. Every Christ-follower is to be a witness of the Lord Jesus Christ. It requires no formal training and no seminary degree.  Mark 5:19-20 says “Go home to your family and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and how he has had mercy on you." NIV (Listen to my recent message on witnessing here.) 
2. Spread the Gospel. Every sincere Christ-follower is to be one who echoes again and again the good news that Jesus Christ came to save us, while we were still sinners. He was crucified for our sins, and He died and rose again according to the Scriptures. (1 Corinthians 15:1-3)  Have you echoed the gospel out this week in your community? It is your calling and your responsibility to the One who paid for all your sins. Romans 12 says it is our "reasonable service." 
3. Make disciples. Jesus last instructions to his devoted followers was to go and make disciples of all nations. To put it plainly, to make a disciple you have to help others follow Christ as you follow Christ.  Your cousins, co-workers, barber, chiropractor, lawn-man, next-door neighbors and Zumba partners are all good candidates for discipleship. Every Christian should be discipling someone. Who are you teaching to follow Christ? (Listen to my recent message on discipleship here.) 

So not only are we to be the DEAD who live again and follow Christ in our new life, but we are to be the "talking dead" who bring the good news. At 6.14 Ministries, we long to see every church — no matter how big or small — teach its membership how to live out this high calling. Is your church family filled with the "talking dead?" Are your church members trumpeting forth the gospel like the believers at Thessalonica? (1 Thessalonians 1:6-10) Let us help by bringing some practical steps to your church family and encourage them in spreading the good news and making disciples. Contact us at 614rebuild@gmail.com. We would love to visit your church! 

Eighty-thousand churches in America are struggling this week. Eighty-thousand churches are wrestling with bills that they need to pay, salaries that they want to pay, and — most importantly — souls that they want to impact with the message of the Gospel. When a church is in any type of decline, whether it's financial, spiritual, or numerical, there is often a tension and a tone that the fellowship itself can take on, and that the leadership can exude, which is unhealthy for the entire church family. Negative comments, excessive analysis of past issues, finger-pointing, and whispering conversations can lead to a defeated body of believers. The great Enemy, Satan, can easily control a congregation that is struggling with doubts, fears, and practicing gossip and blaming. But thankfully, there are steps that a shepherd can take in order to overcome these temptations and to lead his congregational flock back into rich, God-honoring fellowship and service. 

Questions 

A congregation's expectations of its ministry team and a minister's expectations of its congregation are central issues when a church is struggling. Is the minister doing enough? Is he carrying out his ministry correctly? Is there any unconfessed sin in his life or in the life of other staff members which might bring about this decline? Has his zeal for ministry and his devotion to God waned? These are all normal questions that a devoted church member will ponder.

But, the minister will also ponder about the flock that he is tasked with guarding. Are they devoted more to the things of the world than the things of the Kingdom of God? Do they share their faith in the marketplace? Do they really believe in the mission and value of the local church? 

While all the questions are good to use to evaluate oneself and evaluate a church, they can simultaneously become harmful and even damaging if done without a spirit of encouragement. The process of evaluating one another must be done with the clear goal of building each other up in the faith. (1 Thessalonians 5:12-22) Also, evaluation and analysis must have an ending point. Questioning and questioning can quickly become exhausting. Analysis paralysis is a real thing! You cannot move forward and improve if you're still wallowing in your past, analyzing your mistakes to death. Be sensitive to one another as staff and as congregants. Trust the Lord to work in everyone who is seeking to build your church family and move forward. 

Answers 

First, in the midst of hard trials, a church family must remain stable. The answer to stability will always be to return to the basics of the church's purpose and faith values. If you as a pastor have found yourself in this situation, I suggest preaching a series on sharing the Gospel. Teach on the basic catechisms — "the chief end of man is to glorify God." Returning to the basics helps to stabilize the issues and calls everyone, staff and flock, to simply obey. 

For our church, it is a return to witnessing and discipleship. We believe the goal of any church is to glorify God and that is best done by sharing the Gospel (evangelism) and bringing people who are far from God into a healthy relationship with Him (discipleship). Stability is easier when your foundation is strong. So, be sure to strengthen the foundation. 

Second, relationships must be nurtured and everyone must choose to care for each other. Church leadership should be sensitive to the stress of core staff and ministers. Let your speech be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6) and strive to be an encourager through the challenging times. Do not wait on others to step up and encourage. Take the initiative, read encouraging verses, and bring a positive spirit of hope and faith into your church family. 

Third, be open with your church in your messages about the struggle. Acknowledge the struggle and be open to questions. Let the church ask questions through text, e-mails, or in person after the service. Invite them, welcome them, and thank them for caring enough to ask. Ask them to find the positive work God is doing in the church and focus on the positives. 

Every church goes through trials and struggles. Satan longs to defeat and divide believers and to let them hurt one another and damage the testimony of Jesus in the community. At 6.14 Ministries, we want all good churches to function as light, hope, grace, and encouragement in their communities. If your church — or you as a minister — are going through a difficult time, please reach out to us at 614rebuild@gmail.com or by visiting the official contact page on our website. You can also write me directly by visiting the contact tab on this blog. We will gladly help and encourage you as you follow your calling. There is no charge for your church or for you. Prayers and help are only an e-mail away!

What happens when you put six pastors, a couple of youth leaders, 20 or so volunteers, and 50 students on the same campground for a week in the middle of rural Georgia? "It's seven o'clock in the morning! It's seven o'clock at Camp Eunice! It's seven o'clock and I'm excited!" Pastor Matt Rutland would wake our staff and campers with this glorious song each day. If you were fortunate enough to carry a camp radio (walkie-talkie), you could even hear him singing it in the afternoon or early evening whenever someone would ask: "Pastor Matt, what time is it?"

In addition to silly pastors and their whimsical songs, there's also all the fun times had each day with games, rubber chickens, swimming pool noodles, lightsabers, whipped cream on peoples' heads and hands interlaced on tables, meal time announcements, best bunk awards, clean dorm competitions, and so much more. What a blast! For over 15 years now, I have traveled to Roberta, Georgia to serve as Camp Pastor at this rural camp. Believe me when I say that it's a challenge. It's hard work. It's always exhausting. But most of all, it's always incredible to see God work there. 

WITHOUT STUFF

Camp Eunice is a small, anointed camp nestled just outside of Fort Valley, Georgia, south of Macon. I first went there to cover for a summer camp speaker who had fallen ill at the last minute. That was 17 years ago and now I look forward to the invitation to return each year as the speaker for Senior Camp. As I sit here pondering how to best describe the camp, I find myself somewhat at a loss for words. I usually begin by telling folks that the zip code there is E-I-E-I-O and that it's not really "near anything" other than God and a bunch of trees. I have mistakenly described it as a "no frills" camp. After all, the amenities include really fancy things like two outdoor pingpong tables, an outdoor basketball goal, a volleyball net, and a recently added above-ground pool (special thanks to Curt Bode). Along with this award-winning set up though, you also get all things south Georgia, like killer heat waves and killer mosquitos. But, in truth, it's a camp with incredible "frills" if you know how to count and define frills.

Relationships run deep at this little camp. Some of the friendships go back for generations. In fact, the "friendship frill" is evident in every age demographic there. And then there are the "frills" from the Holy Spirit and from God. An amazing hunger and thirst for His Word is always present at the camp, mingled with a near-insatiable longing to see Him show up and show off in a mighty way. There is humble leadership and sacrificial servanthood. And, of course, there's a deep love for the campers and a strong desire to see them fall crazy-in-love with Jesus. This love permeates every aspect of the activities, from the games and Bible classes to the teaching and worship sessions. What we lack in fancy campgrounds or "gimmicks" or "stuff," God has more than made up for in abundance with His presence. 

This year, we saw 40 or more students seriously rededicate their lives to follow Christ and die to themselves. The call of our chapel services and my lessons were two-fold: 1) Fully surrender and 2) identify with what God says about you and not what you say about yourself. We are His children and have been adopted by Him. (Romans 8:15-17) He's our Friend. (Colossians 1:21-22) And even though God is all-knowing and all-powerful, immeasurable and infinite (Romans 11:33-36; Psalms 139; Jeremiah 32:17-18), He chose to love, save, and help us. We also learned that God is in charge and that's a good thing. We learned that our unique personalities and abilities do not make us significant, but that our relationship with Christ is what makes us truly significant. Jesus is the most significant one in the entire universe and, if He is your Savior and Helper, then you are significant as well. 

All of this should lead us to live differently. We are commanded to live separated from the things of this world. If you are who God says you are, and He is who He says He is, and if we believe that, then we must change. Our choices, our purposes, and our values must be from Him and not from our peers or from our culture. We must live holy and fully surrendered. To follow Christ, we must deny ourselves, get out of His way, and then die to ourselves. It's a serious calling, but it's also an amazing thing to watch as the Spirit of God moves among youth who have their entire lives in front of them. How precious to see one teen after another let go of the "stuff" they were clinging to — the things of this earth — and choose to become who Christ died for: "fully devoted followers." How exciting to imagine what God can do through this generation as they walk with Him and seek Him first in all things. The Big Frill of Camp Eunice is this: The way in which God works among the staff, volunteers, and students in order to accomplish incredible things deep within students' hearts, a place where only God and His Spirit can work. 

A REMINDER

To all my beloved campers from Senior Camp 2019: Here is a verse that I wish I had shared. In fact, my best buddy Phillip Snodgrass preached this very passage on Sunday at Northside and when I heard it, I realized that it was the perfect verse to close out our week: 

"See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know Him. Beloved, we are God's children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when He appears we shall be like Him, because we shall see Him as He is. And everyone who thus hopes in Him purifies himself as He is pure." — 1 John 3:1-3 (ESV) 

Look closely at the love that God has for you: A love so strong that He calls you His child. And notice that the world doesn't "get it" (we are separated from them), but as His children we have a hope of His appearing and this hope means we purify ourselves. The Greek word here is the same word we studied at camp in 1 Peter 1:15 for "holy." So, behold God's amazing love to adopt you as His own and let it motivate you to put Him first and to purify yourselves. 

I love the Thessalonian church. This church plant, which was started by the dream team of the Apostle Paul, Timothy, Silas and Dr. Luke is an impressive model of a church that can get it done. In a city of 200,000 dominated by Greeks and Romans, this church has a great reputation. It is not a large church and, more importantly, it is not a seasoned church filled with lots of mature saints and a dozen seminary grads. Most of the people in Thessalonica were blue-collar ship builders working in the naval station at the port. [1 Thessalonians 4:11] 
 
When Paul and the team brought the message of the gospel to this great city on the Egnatian Road, which was a strong military highway, the message was heard and received with joy by a small group who became the base for the church at Thessalonica (1:6). It was a dangerous time in history for anyone to profess Christ as Lord and Savior. Rome was torturing and killing devout Christ-followers and the old-line devout Jews who rejected Jesus were serving as bounty hunters, exposing Christians so they could be arrested.  In the midst of this persecution a group of 20 to 30 believers fell in love with the message of grace that resonates from the cross of Jesus Christ. Having trusted Christ's sacrifice to be only means of their salvation, they wasted no time starting an effective ministry.  
 
PROCLAIMING THE MESSAGE

What kind of ministry can a spiritually young, small, new church start?  According to Paul's letter to the church they "proclaimed the word of God throughout the region." Paul says the word has "sounded forth". This means it literally trumpeted out from the little church. How effective was their trumpeting proclamation of the gospel? Paul says he has no need to go into the surrounding cities. The great church planter and missionary says, “You guys have done such a great job of proclaiming the message of Christ to the neighbors I am not needed here.” I wonder if Paul could say that about you and your church family?  What message did they proclaim? This is a good question. I'm sure that no one taught "Evangelism Explosion"  or "Contagious Christianity"  or the "Walk Across the Room" curriculum to these believers. Their faith and enthusiasm meant they just shared what they knew. They knew they were sinners and that Jesus loved them enough to die for them and pay for their sins. They knew Jesus rose from the grave to conquer sin and death. They knew the freedom that they experienced in their heart. They knew the peace they had found in a relationship with Jesus. Could they quote five Bible verses? I would think not! Could they explain the theological issues of Calvinism, Armenianism, or the reformed teachings?  They could not! But they could testify! They could testify and proclaim the message effectively. 
 
SAVED TO SERVE

The sincere Christ-followers in Thessalonica did four important things that made their ministry effective. 
 
First, they turned to the one true God as their source of help and life. 
 
Secondly, they turned from idolatry. They left their past sinful life choices behind. Life change was evident to all who met this group. They did not try to live with one foot in the faith life and one foot in their sinful past. 
 
Thirdly, they believed Jesus was coming back and lived with a hope and zeal that let everyone know they were waiting for Him to come and rescue them from the wrath to come. 
 
Fourthly, the turned to God and served God. How they served him was to proclaim Him. They trumpeted the truth and message of Jesus to all the neighbors. This is exactly the Great Commandment and Great Commission lived out by this small but mighty church. 

"…how you turned to God from idols to serve a living and true God, and to wait for His Son from heaven, whom He raised from the dead, that is Jesus, who rescues us from the wrath to come."  — 1 Thessalonians 1:9-10 
 
HOW ABOUT YOU?
 
Are you proclaiming the message of grace to your neighbors? Are you telling those whom you can influence about what Jesus did for you? Sadly, in our American culture, we often sit quietly, even as Christ-followers, and hope that someone else will tell the Good News. What can you do to fire up your church to share the message? The best thing to do is start sharing your testimony and then let those in your church hear of your adventures. Reaching the lost with the message of grace is exhilarating. It is contagious. Once you get the ball rolling, the excitement will grow. But someone has to start. Pray now for God to give you divine appointments this week so you can share your testimony. Start the fire in your church so that it can be like the Thessalonian church. Small groups of believers can be very effective and mighty witnesses in the community. 
 
6.14 Ministries is designed to help small churches — and all churches — become more effective at reaching the lost and raising up a biblical community for the glory of God. We want to come alongside churches and encourage the leadership and core members to serve with joy.

If you're in need of such encouragement, renewal, or revitalization, please contact us at 614rebuild@gmail.com or visit our website and we can support or visit your ministry at no charge.  You can also follow us on Facebook at Facebook.com/614rebuild and on Twitter at Twitter.com/614rebuild.

Have you ever noticed when you are standing with a group of friends or associates talking and one person walks away, the rest of the group may often comment on that person? "She's a really good co-worker." "He's got a lot of problems at home." "She's not a morning person." The group will often comment behind our backs with some thoughts on how they view our character or behavior. So how can I get better ratings? Well, take a moment and consider what it means to be filled with God's Spirit and how it can help your reputation and ratings. 

A Little Background
 
I was raised in conservative, fundamental, evangelical churches (even though in all those years I had no real idea what any of those words meant). My mother's family was mostly holiness and full gospel. In my years of speaking in different venues I've encountered many forms of worship and many aspects of praise and celebration. Some of them I am more familiar with and more comfortable with than others. But I appreciate all forms of worship that are sincere and meant to bring glory to God. I remember the first time I was leading worship in a faith-based rehabilitation center and while singing and playing guitar a gentleman on the front row started a "praise train" and took a good group of worshippers with him on a trip around the chairs in the chapel. Not understanding exactly what was happening, I ended the song long before the worshippers were ready to end the train. They were still rolling down the tracks of joy and worship, stepping lively to the beat and I stopped the music! Awkward! We all have learning curves. In the body of Christ, we must be willing to dwell in unity through these differences. Country conservative boy was not "jiving" well with the holiness crowd. They had to be patient with me, and I had to be understanding of them.  
 
A Simple Truth
 
Following the Holy Spirit's leading can appear in many different ways for growing believers. The Bible is very clear that the Holy Spirit indwells all who truly believe on Jesus as the means of their salvation. If you are saved by the grace of God (Ephesians 2:8-10) then the Bible says you also have the Spirit of God dwelling in you (John 14:17; Romans 8:9; 1 Corinthians 3:16). This is not a controversial issue. This is simple and powerful truth. I have taught it many times. I believe and know the very Spirit of God lives within me. In fact each Sunday that I preach the word of God is great evidence of the Spirit's indwelling for me, since I am an introvert and prefer not to be the one everyone is looking to for instruction. The Scriptures teach us to walk by the Spirit (Galatians 5:16), to be taught by the Spirit (1 Corinthians 2:14) and to be led by the Spirit (Romans 8:9).

All of this I have woven into dozens of sermons. I have also taught on the passage of being "filled by the Spirit” from Ephesians 5:18-20. You remember this passage, the one that says you shouldn't get drunk. "Don't be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit, 19 singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, and making music to the Lord in your hearts. 20 And give thanks for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ." 

We emphasize lots of truth from this passage. We tell all the "good-ole-boys" in church this is why you shouldn't drink heavy every weekend. Some churches say that even partaking of wine is not acceptable based on this verse.  They struggle with Jesus making 3,000 cups of wine as His first miracle and Paul telling Timothy to take some wine for his aching stomach. 

At times we let these controversial and trite things blind us to what the passage is trying to offer as great life advice. As Christ followers, we are to live our lives filled with the Spirit of God. Some teachers equate filling of the Spirit with indwelling of the Spirit. This may be because they are afraid of being labeled something that does not align with their core denominational values. Regardless of the fears, the filling of Christ followers with the Spirit of God is important. 
 
A Closer Look 
 
But here the Apostle Paul is telling the true Christ followers in Ephesus, who already are indwelt by the Spirit of God to make a definitive effort to be "filled by the Holy Spirit." He knows the Ephesians believers are indwelt.  Indwelling and filling are different. If you are a Baptist, indwelling and filling are different. If you are a Pentecostal, indwelling and filling are different.  All Christians are indwelt by the Holy Spirit of God, but not all Christians are filled by Spirit of God.  In fact, many Christians never seek or try to be filled, they are satisfied with the indwelling. The indwelling gets you safely home to heaven. But don't you want more? Be sure you do not equate the filling as you would think of filling a container here. Many teachers use this "word picture" but it is not at all implied by the original text. The word filling used by Paul means "controlled by," as when someone intoxicated is controlled by the substance. The same word is used when Ananias in Acts 5 is "filled by Satan" or controlled by Satan and lies to spiritual leaders. 
 
Look closely at the text and you will see the results of the filling. There are four behaviors that happen when we are filled.  The Bible says we will be continually:

• speaking to others in spiritually uplifting ways (psalm, hymns, spiritual songs)
• singing with a light heart
• giving thanks - Always giving thanks for all things (for and in all things)
• submitting to one another in the fear of Christ

Do your co-workers describe you in any of these terms? Does your core family and extended family describe you as a light-hearted person? Do they see you as an uplifting person? Do they find you to be continually thankful? Does your family talk about you with these attributes as your most common behavior?  I know it’s a hard question. It’s something that, as Christ-followers, we must wrestle with in our daily lives. We need to grow up in all aspects as unto Christ and become more Christ like.
 
So, rather than be a Christian who speaks discouragingly, we should instead speak encouragingly to and about others. Rather than murmuring and carrying a heavy heart, we should sing to the Lord continually. Rather than complain about what we don't have, and demand or expect more, we should be continually expressing thanks. We should submit to others in our workplace and home rather than be combative or resistant or bossy! This is the filling of the Spirit of God ALIVE in us. And if you know your Scripture, it is also evidence of the fruit of the Spirit, which is Christ-like love. This would be the fifth behavior that is evidenced in someone being filled with the Spirit. The Spirit's filling will bring about the Spirit's fruit. My new friend, Dr. Tom Dooley (pathclearer.com), shared with me at breakfast recently that "manifesting any of the gifts of the Spirit or all of them must be accompanied by the fruit of the Spirit, which is love, or it is of no value in the work of the Kingdom.” May God help us all seek the filling and fruit of the Spirit in our daily lives. 
 
How do I get filled if I am indwelt? Here are some good verses to help you. 

• Ask for the filling: Luke 11:13
• Believe in the promises of the Holy Spirit's indwelling: Galatians 3:2
• Surrender yourself daily to God's will and service: Romans 12:1-2
• Obey the instructions of Jesus to enjoy the fullness of the Holy Spirit's work: Acts 5:32

 
For more study on this you can access the sermon audio library at Northside Bible Church and listen to "The Not So Secret, Secret to the Christian Life." You can also subscribe to Northside's podcast on iTunes. You can also listen to this message on Northside's BuzzSprout profile here.

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The Bible is filled with people who model how we should live out our faith in our daily lives. As a pastor, I am always looking for role models in the Scriptures. The classic Old Testament list includes Joseph, David, Elijah, Ruth, Nehemiah, and the donkey who saved Balaam the prophet's life. I am also a big fan of Ziba. I may not be able to achieve the spiritual strides of Joseph or Elijah, but the donkey gives me hope!  In the New Testament you have the core disciples, Paul the former bounty hunter, turned laser-focused missionary, and Timothy his spiritual son. And everyone who has heard me teach through Philippians knows I love Epaphroditus, the blue-collar super-star. 
 
We should thank the Lord weekly for giving us good examples to follow. I believe we should read their stories and their backstories to glean life lessons. Mary of Magdalene is one of those super role models for us to follow. For our Easter service at Northside, I highlighted her life and suggested she teaches us exactly how we should respond to the resurrection of Jesus Christ. 
 
Here are five lessons Mary of Magdalene taught me about my faith:
 
First: Be sure to accept your full freedom with joy. 

Consider that she was freed from her demonic oppression by the Lord Jesus. "Now after He had risen early on the first day of the week, He first appeared to Mary Magdalene, from whom He had cast out seven demons." (Mark 16:9) Her life with oppression would have been filled with suffering: emotional, psychological, physical, and mental agony.  At some point Jesus crossed her path, had great compassion on her and cleansed her of those demons. She accepted the freedom from her past and the Enemy of her soul and devoted her life to serving Jesus.

Second: Exercise your faith by following Jesus. 

Luke 8:1-3 records that Mary and other prominent women were with Jesus and the disciples and were contributing to their support out of their private means. Mary of Magdalene become one of his disciples. She dedicated herself to serving his purposes. I know a number of people who let Christ help them be free from sin and their past, only to continue living a lifestyle that did not serve the Lord or honor Him. Mary accepted her freedom and chose to become a devoted follower. Many new church models use the term "fully devoted followers of Christ" as part of their purpose statement. Mary exemplifies this purpose from the time she met Christ. 
 
Third: Be strong enough to identify with Jesus' suffering.

The Apostle Paul wrote that his highest priorities included knowing Christ with deep personal understanding, and to fellowship with his suffering, "becoming like Him in His death." (Philippians 3:10) Mary of Magdalene did exactly that. "Therefore the soldiers did these things. But there were standing by the cross of Jesus His mother, and His mother's sister, Mary the {wife} of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. " (John 19:25) There is great wisdom in this passage. The death of Christ is a powerful moment in any true Christ-follower's life. We do not need to skip over this moment in history or these passages. In fact, I contend that we need to regularly review the cross. My life verse is Galatians 6:14 which explains we should only boast in the cross.  Mary was willing to stand at the foot of the cross with Jesus and endure His suffering with Him. How can you identify with Jesus suffering? May I suggest we need to speak of Jesus openly in our culture as our Savior, Lord, Redeemer and Friend. In doing so, you will possibly incur some pushback and maybe some ridicule. Mary was willing to take all the ridicule at the foot of the real cross because she loved Jesus so much for paying for her sins. Why wouldn't we be willing to identify with Jesus' suffering by speaking of His grace, love and sacrifice? Tell somebody today about what Jesus did for you. 
 
Fourth: Support and serve Jesus with undeniable faith. 

Mary helped bury Jesus. Mary saw the hundreds of cuts, gashes, and wounds from the scourging Jesus endured. She saw the nail holes in his hands and feet. She saw the large deep wound in his side where a Roman soldier's spear pierced him under his ribs. She saw him placed in Joseph's tomb and knew the burial was rushed. It was not complete. So she got up before daylight on the first day of the week to go finish His burial preparations. Her devotion to Christ was so strong that she wanted to be there at the moment the sun broke over the horizon. By Jewish law she was not to be in the graveyard unless the sun was up. I picture her dressed and ready to go early, spices in her bag, standing at the edge of the graveyard waiting for the sunlight to peak over the horizon. The very second she sensed the sun on the graveyard, she rushed to Jesus' tomb. She was committed to Him even in His death. While all of the disciples would have been in shock as to the events of the trial and crucifixion of their Savior, Mary is serving. Surely she is confused and filled with questions about what happened and how did Jesus allow Himself to be executed. But she is there again, beside Him, wanting to serve.  Faith in God says we serve Jesus. If things go wrong we serve Jesus. If we don't understand, we serve Jesus. If we are confused, we serve Jesus. If we are afraid, we serve Jesus.  Even if we do not understand what is going on around us, we must serve Jesus. May God give us all the fortitude that Mary had to rush to the graveside of "her Lord" even in the confusion, and to serve Him.
 
Fifth: Choose to believe all the time, even when it seems dark and hopeless. 

John 20 records that even as Mary stood bitterly weeping outside the tomb, confused and troubled about Jesus' body missing, she told the angels, "They have taken away, my Lord!” She still declares Jesus as her Lord, even though in her mind He is a corpse on a slab in a tomb. This is a faith that is rich and deep. Mary did not stop serving, loving and honoring Jesus in all the darkness of His death and burial. This is troubling to her, but it did not change how she related to Jesus. Jesus was personal ("my") and Jesus was the "Lord" of her life. I wish when troubled times washed into our lives we could all declare Him Lord, even when He seems distant. Job understood how to do that! (Job 1:20-22) David many times in the Psalms made it clear that even when God was distant, He was enthroned and in charge. (Psalm 22:2-3) Even the donkey in Numbers 22 was willing to take a beating and trusted God's pathway. (Numbers 22:26-31) When you are in a dark place, choose to believe. Use Mary of Magdalene as your example and believe. Believe when it seems hopeless. Believe when it seems all is lost. Believe, not on hope or good things, but believe on Jesus and let your relationship with Him be your guide. 
 
It is my sincere belief that Jesus met first with Mary of Magdalene after His resurrection because she was last at his tomb and first at his graveside. Her faith was undeniable and darkness or doubt did not deter it from showing up as actions of love toward Jesus. May we love Jesus with the same passion and display this love to others in a fallen world. This world needs a lot more Mary Magdalenes who will model freedom from sin with faithful and fervent following. 

For further reflection on Mary Magdalene, you can check out part two of my Easter 2019 sermon series "As If" on Northside's sermon audio page or iTunes podcast. 
 
P.S. there is a great donkey story in the New Testament also...Just sayin'!
 
6.14 Ministries is dedicated to rescuing healthy churches and encouraging saints to keep serving faithfully. We welcome your prayers and support. Learn more about us, what we do, and how we do it by visiting 614ministries.org. 

It is Easter season for the family of God. This is the time of year that we consider to be the highlight of the Christian faith and one of the holiest and most wonderful seasons to celebrate our faith. It is indeed both painful and beautiful because it is a time that we celebrate Christ's death and His resurrection simultaneously. We call “good Friday” good, but it's when we remember that the Holy Son of God, sinless, perfectly loving, was brutally beaten and executed for my sins and your sins. But Sunday celebrates the resurrection and new life and eternal hope. With recent trends of our culture and society wanting to imply that the message of the Christian faith is antiquated at best and inappropriate at every level, we must declare the message of grace clearer than ever. Liberal and progressive thinkers shun the message of Jesus and His word like a country boy shaking fire ants from his boots. But most often I have found that the message of Jesus is not hard for them to accept. In fact, the real message of Christ is something most people are starving for if they would just search deep enough within themselves and not fear what they find.  
 
I propose that this Easter season, and the days to follow, we who know Christ need to talk as much about Him as we possibly can. We need to look for ways to share the message of grace and the hope of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  Here are four ways to talk about God in everyday conversations. 
 
#1. God is a Comforting God.  

We are in a society that is rapidly deteriorating into depression, fear, insecurity, and high anxiety. The suicide rates are climbing. February and March are months where suicides typically sore. Loneliness and emptiness are highest on the list of challenges facing many young people today. But God has promised to never leave us nor forsake us. (Hebrews 13:5) In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 God teaches us He is the God of all comforts, who will comfort you in all your afflictions.
 
When I find someone lonely, empty, or afraid, it is easy for me to share with him or her that I have had such feelings. I share with them that in my personal experience when it seems like no one else can understand or even cares what is hurting my heart, God is there for me. God has been, is, and will be my comfort. I share it with great confidence. I know most of you reading this have had that same experience with God. Listen for people to express hurts or emptiness, anxiety or fears and then tell them about your experience with our comforting God.  (Below this blogpost we will give you some specific ways and times God has comforted hurting people.)
 
#2. God is a Giving God.   

God is the greatest giver of all times. I recently heard a fellow minister teach in a chapel at a rehabilitation center where I share that God made trees that produce fruit and plants that produce vegetables. You can simply pick your food from a plant or tree and eat. That is pretty cool when you think about it. He talked about how God made cows, chickens, deer and rabbits and how tasty they can be! Can I get an amen? As a deer hunter, I thought at least the cows and chickens are easy to catch! How good is God to us! James 1:17 says He is the Father of all good gifts. Every good thing you have is from God. I have a good Labrador retriever laying at my feet as I type, who was given to me by a great friend about 15 years ago. I love Dakota. She is a gift from God and my friend, Scott, to our family.  God made chocolate. How good is that! I have a great Ford F-150 pick-up with 340K miles on it. I affectionately call my truck "Shadow." (It’s a country boy thing to name your truck.) Shadow is a gift from God and has served many single moms, young families, widows and my family for 12 years now. The computer I use to create my blogs is a gift. My music that is playing now as I write is a gift.

My church family is a gift from God. I am blessed with many friends. Each is a gift from God. My wife and children are gifts from God. My first grandson, born just three weeks ago, is a gift from God. I have some amazing friends, really amazing close friends who I consider all special gifts from God. Drinking water, breathable air, soft beds, guitars, chocolate, traditional recurve bows, books, movies, chocolate, napkins, photographs, toilets and accompanying paper supplies, flowers, birds, sunsets, work opportunities, and chocolate — well you get the idea — these are all gifts!

Take time to be thankful, and you will be able to share with those who may struggle in the area of thankfulness. He is a generous and loving giver. Ephesians 1:3 says that God has blessed us with all spiritual blessings. 1 Peter 1 says that He has given us all we need for life and godliness. The greatest gift ever is Jesus. We read in John 3 that God so loved us He gave us His Son Jesus to save us from our sins. In Romans 8 we read that He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all — how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?  Please use this time of year to remind your co-workers and friends that God is a giving God. He is the best provider you will ever know. I hope and pray you can and will say that with conviction this Easter season. Also, anytime you are called on to pray for a meal you can say, “Thank you Lord for being the best provider ever and giving us Jesus Christ and the only means of our salvation.”

#3. God is a Creative God.

Have you ever really looked at a hippopotamus or an elephant or a crocodile? How about the zebra and the giraffe? You can see this truth in almost any area. Insects, stars, clouds, sky colors, people's taste in clothing, food, hairstyles, etc. The list is endless. God created this world with millions of colors and beauty beyond words. There is creative beauty in nature, music, art, in loving behavior, in children playing carefree without schedules and time frames. Our world is filled with creativity. You can start this conversation in a Walmart line. Just a few weeks ago at a long check-out line in a local gas station several people were talking about the new M&M flavor: jalapeno. Yep, you read that right! Just in case you have not heard, that is the recent new flavor!  Introvert that I am, I stood there for almost three minutes hoping the line would move. Then I remembered that years ago God whispered to me, "I put you in long, slow lines so you can talk about me!" Oh, yeah! Duh! So with a quick "Jesus help me" prayer, I blurted out, "Well as creative as M&M has become, they have long way to go to catch up on God's creativity and they are using all of God's ingredients!"

Certainly with all the "Pinterest" creativity out there, you can find a way to compliment a friend's decorum and highlight how wonderfully creative God is at the same time! God created mature wine from jugs of water in John 2.  He created stars so beautiful it made angels sing we are told in Job 38. Best of all, He created a way for lost, lonely and helpless sinners to go to heaven and live with Him forever. Now that's creative! 
 
#4. God loves the underdog.

If you know any Bible stories at all, you probably know at least one about an underdog that God blessed and helped. Young David, a shepherd boy, (“pizza delivery guy” as I like to call him; just a shout out to my camp friends) faced down a 9 foot tall, seasoned warrior with more battle scars than David had hairs on his chest, is a good underdog story. Gideon, the "fraidy cat" threshing wheat in a hole in the ground for fear of being seen by the Midianite terrorists, was an underdog. He questioned God several times, snuck around at night, and played "prove-it" games with God using a rug! God used him to become the warrior who helped defeat the Midianite army that held Israel captive for over seven years. How about Joseph, the favored son of the all-important Jacob? He was sold into slavery by his brothers, abandoned in jail, and forgotten. Later he was unjustly accused of sexual crimes against an official’s wife and put back into prison. Yet he became a great ruler who would save Egypt and Israel during a great famine. Let's not forget Rahab, the harlot of Jericho, who is listed in the lineage of Jesus Christ. Think of Joseph, the carpenter, who was privileged to care for the only, holy, begotten Son of God. Think of Zacchaeus, that tree-climbing little man, whom Jesus knew by name. Think of others such as Levi the tax-collector, Peter the fisherman with a rocky path to walk, or Paul, the violently aggressive bounty hunter turned super-missionary. God loves the underdogs. God loves redeeming and rescuing “unredeemable”.  

Somehow I think you have a personal story of an underdog season of your life when God showed up and showed off His grace in your weakness.  Most every Sunday that I speak somewhat coherently in our pulpit is one of those moments for me. It is when a country bumpkin, introverted, speech class dropout shares the Word of God and people are helped by the Spirit of God in that moment. 

So many people today feel unloved, unimportant, insecure, ashamed and afraid. In this Easter season you can brag about how God loves the unlovable. Jesus turned a raving demon-controlled man with no identity into a missionary in Luke 8.  He transformed an arrogant and bigoted Samaritan woman, with deep hollows in her heart, into a vibrant missionary in John 4. In everyday conversations you will hear people talking about underdogs. Maybe in the sports world they will mention the final four. (Auburn? Really?)  Maybe in the political realm an underdog candidate will be discussed.  Maybe a t-ball team or a student who graduated despite severe handicaps will be discussed, and you can inject how God loves serving the underdog. Take a shot and testify that He is a loving, gracious and caring God. 

Final note to my friends who are pastors: Please, please, please, lead the way in showing your church family how to share in everyday conversations. Tell a waitress, a gas clerk, a stranger asking directions something wonderful about God and let the adventure begin. Let's not miss the opportunity during this special season to share about the greatness of our God and His Son Jesus. 

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Footnote: God comforts those with 

• Heartache—Luke 7:11-17 Widow’s only son
• Insecurities—Exodus 4:1, 10 Six times Lord spoke to Moses
• Fear–Joshua 1:6-9 Great responsibility
• Depression — 2 Timothy 4:6,10-16, 17-18
• Loneliness and fear—1 King 19:9-14 Elijah comforted by God v.19– companion found
• Great defeat—Lamentations 3:19-21 Great is thy Faithfulness God is faithful, we can have hope.

 

Meet Everett Lee Givens, my grandson! Annette and I and the family are thrilled with his arrival. As a new grandfather, I have hundreds of thoughts daily regarding Everett. Here's a sample:
 
I can’t wait to see:

• What kind of music you will fall in love with.
• What instrument you will play
• What hand you will throw ball with as we play together
• What your favorite color will be
• What songs you will love
• What Bible stories you like to tell
• What Bible stories will you like us to tell you
• Who your best friend will be
• What your spiritual gifts will be
• What your favorite books to read will be
• What your singing voice will sound like
• What will make you giggle uncontrollably 
• What silly jokes will you tell your grandparents
• What year Ford Mustang will be your favorite (it’s a family thing)
• What your heart becomes when God's grace consumes it.
• What you will name your first dog
• What stories of your mom and dad will you like best
• What your favorite movie will be
• Who your first “crush” will be
• What passions will drive your life to achieve excellence
• What mission work and mission field will touch your heart the deepest

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​I have prayed for Everett for months before he was born, and I pray for him daily now. I believe God will use him mightily to serve the Kingdom of God. You are all invited to join me in those prayers, but I want to challenge you regarding prayers for your family. 
 
A friend of mine on the phone the other day was congratulating me on my first grandchild and reminded me that I had numerous spiritual grandchildren. I realized at that moment, I should pray for, hope in and long for my spiritual children and grandchildren to be strong in their faith. Do you think about your spiritual children often? Do you pray for your spiritual children to continue to lead others to Christ, so you have spiritual grandchildren? As Christ-followers and ministers, our spiritual family are the most important family we have. The heritage of our spiritual children can change the world. I realized I can pray ahead of time for my grandchildren. Are you praying for spiritual children and grandchildren?  Let's all pray with faith and work with diligently to raise a strong family of sincere and passionate Christ-followers.  What are you looking forward to learning about your spiritual grandchildren?

Excellence is a driving force for some of us as minsters. When we consider the holiness of God, the extremely detailed way that He instructed His temple and tabernacle to be built, and how it was designed to function, it's clear that He wanted us to practice excellence both in worship and in ministry. However, striving for excellence, and being excessive or compulsive toward all aspects of ministry, can be destructive. Allow me to give you some examples for reference. 

In my church, I am blessed with over a dozen volunteers. These men and women sacrifice a lot of time for our ministry and its goals. Some of them lead small groups, prepare incredible meals, work with our social media, plan events, and care for our building and grounds. If I were to micromanage any one of these areas, I would find things that could be done differently, or perhaps even "better." But it is not healthy to strive for so much excellence that relationships and passions are squelched in the process. It's easy to understand why someone designing graphics or picking music may want to quit if each week someone shows them a "better" way or a "better" song. While excellence is certainly important, allowing others to minster and serve the Lord with a zeal and an excitement of their own is also as equally as important. 

Sometimes it is an opinion-based critique that you must guard against sharing. For example, you may not particularly care for the color of the new youth room, or the decorations chosen for an updated lobby or conference room. But the color is most likely not an excellence issue, rather it is a preference. If a group of volunteers zealously took on a project to help update a room, then rejoice. Celebrate servant who are doing things to help your facility and your ministry needs. Don't miss the big picture that members of the body of Christ took some responsibility and applied themselves to do some work. 

Of course, there are indeed times when corrections and critiques are very necessary. My full name is Stanley, most often shortened to Stan, except by my father, who never once called me "Stan." So, when someone sends out an e-mail that reads: "Satan will be leading the board meeting tonight because our chairman is out of town," someone should step in and make corrections. Just so you know, texting doesn't always help to correct this because — according to the text sent out at my church  — "Santa" has apparently also been leading many of our meetings. 

To get from my office at the church to my house, there are about five good routes. I know which ones I think are best. But my wife and children often take other routes. I do not need to correct them in this or even chide them. I do not need to tell them that they're doing something wrong. They arrive at the same destination that I do every time. In fact, the way my wife goes is actually a few minutes quicker than the way I go. (Even though I know my route is best.) 

My point is that we have to let each other work and minister with grace and encouragement. Praise those who serve in your ministry. Resist the urge to micromanage every part of their work. Let them lead, learn, grow, and mature. Teach your co-leaders how to ask for input and welcome input. Teach them how to welcome criticism without giving up or quitting. But keep diligent to avoid micromanagement and micro-criticism. Encourage servants, enable co-laborers, and build up one another. (1 Thessalonians 5:14) 

Secondly, sometimes we allow excellence to push us into a complicated place. I've been guilty of creating complex programs, systems, or plans for our church (usually trying to adapt something that I learned from a mega-church that looked amazing). Recently I started trying to simplify the way that we do ministry. Bill Hybels' book "Simplify" was an eye-opener. We had events on our schedule that we did not need to be on the calendar. Who says we need to have a Homecoming Service every year? Lightening our calendar load frees up servant leaders and gives breathing room for other events that might be more productive. We are researching alternatives to traditional VBS. In the past, we've done weeklong VBS programs, which utterly exhausted our volunteers. The few Sundays following VBS, we have a lot of empty seats and pews because our team needed rest. So why not simply VBS? Could it become a three-day, two-day, or one-day event? Look at the overall picture of your committee/board/team meeting. In smaller churches, there are usually five to ten people who are in almost all of these meetings. How can you simplify them? Are they all necessary or could one meeting accomplish two or three team's responsibilities? Can some of the meetings themselves be simplified? Can group calls or video calls save team members an hour of travel? 

Thirdly, remember that God assembled a team of people at your church for you to encourage and develop as servants of Christ. We are to be equipping others for the work of the ministry, not exhausting them with activities. (Ephesians 4:11-13) Let young people learn how to minister. Give them opportunities to lead devotionals with prayer breakfasts, work days, and nursing homes. Teach them how to serve senior citizens by raking leaves or cleaning gutters at widows' homes. Give new believers opportunities to serve and to share their testimonies. At our church, we have a phrase that's started to catch on: "Every member is a missionary." That's biblical truth by the way. A serious Christ-follower is a missionary every day, all day, all the time. When we have "testimony time" in our worship services, it really should be like a "missions report" from our group of local missionaries. 

As ministers, we must equip with patience and practicality. At 6.14 Ministries, we long to help every size church, particularly the small ones, thrive in equipping their people and reaching their full ministry potential. I would be honored to pray for your leadership team and to talk with you if you're in need of some encouragement, revitalization, restructuring, or refreshing. Contact us at 614rebuild@gmail.com or visit our official website at 614ministries.org. 

Thanks for reading and please feel free to share this will fellow ministers, pastors, lay leaders, and church volunteers! 

There are two "nots" in the Bible that have continually challenged my years of ministry. Galatians 6:9 challenges us to not grow weary in well doing, and 2 Corinthians 4:16 challenges us to not lose heart. Having been in ministry for over 35 years I can say that numerous times I have become weary in ministry. In fact, a common response I hear from my fellow ministers when asked how they are doing is: "I'm tired."  So are we missing something about this verse? 

It is one thing to be tired "in our ministries." It is an entirely different thing to be tired "of ministry."  The verse says we are not to grow weary in "well doing." I have learned that to "not to grow weary in well doing" is different than being physically or emotionally tired. Paul was exhausted at times, but he kept up his ministry and his "well doing." I love doing ministry. I love teaching, shepherding, encouraging and helping. I can be physically exhausted and still teach. If I am emotionally worn down by counseling or serving and someone needs me to comfort or shepherd them, or disciple them, I love the opportunity. I can be diligent in "well doing" while I am tired.  

In 2 Corinthians 4, Paul writes we are not to "lose heart" in our ministry work. This phrase can literally be translated “we are not to give up”. In the next few verses Paul gives us some helpful instructions, a "how-to" guide so to speak, on not giving up. He actually teaches us how to renew our strength and our minds continually so that we do not grow weary in well doing. 

First, we are RENEWED when we contemplate the spiritual and eternal.

It is vital for our spiritual strength that we focus on the spiritual man. (2 Corinthians 4:17-18) If your spiritual man is growing stronger it will even help your physical man not be weary! Your spiritual man will strengthen your emotions. With all the hundreds of health plans on the web these days, this is a great health plan! Jesus told the woman at the well in John 4, if she would trust in him, she would have living water spring up inside of her. A spring inside her that would satisfy her very soul. How much healthier can you be? Remember that Jesus also teaches the soul is the most important thing you can care for, because there is no profit if a man loses his soul (Matthew 16:26).  Colossians 3:1-4 emphasizes this same idea. We must learn to set our affections on things above, not on things of this earth.  The direction and desire of your thinking need to be spiritual in nature; heavenward and heavenly.  Paul says in 2 Corinthians 4 that when we look at what we cannot see, we do not lose heart. How cool is that?  We must look with eyes of faith, we must look with eyes of hope and trust in a loving God who died to save us from our sins. There's a great "old" song and chorus we used to sing all the time when I was younger, and I still let our church sing it regularly, that says "Turn your eyes upon Jesus, look full in His wonderful face, and the things of earth will grow strangely dim, in the light of His glory and grace."  The opening verse of that song says, “O soul are you weary.” We will not become discouraged and wearied by long hard ministry days, fears and anxiety and trials, even when our outer man is decaying if we keep our focus on the spiritual man. Renew your inner self daily in the Word of God and prayer. 

Second, we are RENEWED when we confess our sins daily.  

David wrote in Psalm 51:10, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” Daily confession of sin renews our spiritual strength. 1 John 1:9 reminds us to "confess our sins daily and God who is faithful and just, will forgive us our sins and cleans us from all unrighteousness. The word confess in this context means to "say the same thing as" or literally to name your sins by name. Mature Christians do not go to God and say, "Father forgive me for I have sinned" and leave it at that. Mature followers of Christ understand we have a relationship with God and Jesus, and we must tell Jesus specifically what we have done wrong.  This kind of confession sounds like, "Lord please forgive me for using your name in vain today," "Lord I know I had anger in my heart today," "Lord I am struggling with doubting you today." We can list dozens of sins by names: lying, lust, bitterness, jealously, greed, selfishness, coveting, etc.  When we confess our known sins, the Scripture teaches us we are forgiven and cleansed from all unrighteousness. We are fully righteous when we practice healthy forgiveness. This is how we refresh our soul and renew a right spirit.  Do not neglect this great strengthening tool. 

Third, we are RENEWED when we commit our life to God daily. 

Look at Romans 12:1-2 which are very familiar verses for many of us. “Therefore, I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.” When, by God’s mercy, you present yourself daily to serve and worship God and you resist sin and the temptation of the world, you are renewed in your mind. One of my mentors, a 76 year-old, hard-working godly man, taught me to do this daily. Jack's morning prayer routine includes these verses as he presents himself to God each day to serve Him. Although he still works to maintain a small lawn service, he is in 10-14 nursing homes and several rehab centers a month building relationships, discipling men for Christ and loving the "least of these." In his spare moments he writes inspirational books about God's peace, and prayer, and the Cross of Christ. Oh, that God would give us more men like him, fully surrendered, and willing to serve with all their days. 

Fourth, we are RENEWED when we confirm our faith with truth.  

Lamentations 3:19-26 says, “Remember my affliction and my wandering, the wormwood and bitterness. Surely my soul remembers and is bowed down within me. This I recall to my mind, therefore I have hope. The Lord's lovingkindnesses indeed never cease, For His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness. "The Lord is my portion," says my soul, "Therefore I have hope in Him." The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the person who seeks Him.  It is good that he waits silently for the salvation of the Lord.”  
When we sing, say, write, teach, share and speak the truth about God we renew our spirit. Look how many times in the Psalms the writer was despairing of trials, defeat, enemies, unfair circumstances, or pain and then spoke of the lovingkindness and mercy of God.  If you really want to refresh a tired spirit, write in a journal four or five sentences that declare truths about the God you know and love.  Speaking truth into the light always makes the darkness run. Once you start, it’s hard to stop! Speak and declare truths out loud when you are discouraged. God's Word will not return void; it will bless you. 

Conclusion

You can be tired when you minister. In fact, if you are a minister and not tired, something is wrong, or you need to be writing to me and telling me know how you do it.  But there is a difference in being tired from ministry and being tired of ministry. Let's all agree to refresh our spiritual man and keep our souls strong in faith so that we can effectively minister. I want to encourage fellow ministers, full time, bi-vocational and and lay-ministers to hold one another accountable to these Scriptural guidelines. If you know some who are weary, check on them. Ask them some good questions regarding their inner strength. At 6.14 Ministries we long to see ministers thrive and serve others with joy. Feel free to reach out to us at 614rebuild@gmail.com for prayer, support, encouragement, or help. We would be happy to visit with you.